Found

found the purse..of course always happens after going to the trouble of changing all the cards.  Loving life without a car it is amazing how generous and obliging people are with giving lifts and sharing their journeys, and my sons love of walking has become a real joy , previous to the demise of the car  he had to  be heavily cajoled into going anywhere on foot, and I get to have exercise which is virtually impossible to fit into my family life normally.